2 in relationship, 2 native languages

ME AND JONATHAN

Love is love end of the day, but ... if you ever dated foreign person, they you will understand 

We are together almost 5 years now. I don’t have problem to win verbal fight anymore, or express myself exactly how I want to. But I do still learn English, every day I trying to get little bit better.  He is sweet, kind guy.. but god help me sometimes. When he turn and say ,, it was that song when we was kids,, or something like that. My favorite is ,, come on! even kid know that,, He is English and I am Czech. I want to stay in Uk, I don’t planning to go back there, don’t take me wrong. I adore everything about England. But we would never be able to agree on Christmas ( sorry guys I grow up to have xmas different day), or we would hardly share our love/hate to stuff from when we were kids. All those differences have positives tho, I make him laugh when I telling him stories how I had it when I was little and opposite.. he is still fascinated by fact I was born to communism so loads of stuff wasn't around me.  ( oranges and bananas was rare-and I know it sound silly) BUT  I had different stuff what he never had. I would not change a thing as those experiences made me who I am now.

But blimey me, when we started to date :D that was hard, I cannot explain stuff, I had to ask what is that what is this.. he was angel seriously J  Language made me soo mad! During some minor argument I pronounced something wrong-ish and he start laugh or just stop with awww.. That’s made me even more angry J But we got here, living together, still happy ( well if we not arguing about some silly stuff like socks) and I could not imagine my life differently. I was so close to give up. I was unhappy, felt like I will never speak English.

Its funny to watch my mum and Jon, they don’t speak same language. But somehow they always manage to pass the message. Mum using pen and paper for drawing J and jon showing things. Its like messed up karaoke/ charades J  

7 years ago I would never think I will meet my other half ( don’t want say better as its not true ;) ) abroad. 

Lazy Friday-home/shop/home outfit

First of all that was perfect lazy day! I know I wasn't productive and drink way too much coffee as I possibly should. But has been easy going day :) I needed to re-charge my batteries so badly. I had been moody, tired, I did over react ... I know its normal, I am just human being after all but I don't like to be like that. I usually have my emotion under control. 
I didn't have that chilled out day for really long time. I done literally nothing.. well I did few things but one what I loved. Mainly I was just lazy, sleeping till midday and had book/sofa day. I manage to get to town for a bit to do little bit of shopping. I really don't need more necklaces  ;) its cannot hurt to have few more. ( my other half doesn't really agree on that )

I got that pink jumper as well :) I know its nuts :D But its funny. Not everything have to be always perfect :)

But seriously amount of the time I was in bed or on sofa is unreal. I had my pjs all day and tbh I am in love with that pattern. I know its not sexy home wear, but I prefer comfy most of the time. 

I found brilliant charity shop where there selling amazing books for nothing. I got some and already had 2 of them out of the way. I had to slow down with reading otherwise I will need bigger place for living as to fit books in my place now starting be slightly difficult. I DO LOVE BOOKS! still don't understand how someone can prefer electronic version and not real thing !!! Over all that was perfect lazy day! I know I wasn't productive and drink way too much coffee as I possibly should. But has been easy going day :)

Loads of love 

Xxx Kat xxX

Get to know me tag

I was thinking about some tag when I can say few stuff about me, but found two different and really don't want to put them in one. As second one is really long and more focus on beauty. this one is more likely short introduction :)

1. Are you named after anyone? yep, after my grandmother sister I think. Well someone from my family line. 

2. When was the last time you cried? I don’t normally cry that much… But If I am not mistaken last time was when I watch some movie. 

3. Do you have kids? No!!!

4. If you were another person, would you be a friend of yourself? Yeah! I am easy going and love to have friends around me. Everyone who loves coffee and share food have special place in my heart ;)

5. Do you use sarcasm a lot? Umm… Yeah I def do, maybe little too much. But again just with ppl who I know. Not everyone react well to sarcasm. 

6. Will you ever bungee-jump?Nope as I am pussy. Its seems way to dangerous for me. I know I am boring :D

7. What’s your favorite cereal? I don't eat cereals :) I will have yogurt or pancakes :)))

8. What’s the first thing you notice about people?Eyes and smile. If its guy I check hands ( don't ask me why, I know its weird). Whole look tbh, how clothes, hair, body language working together. But going with my gut. Main thing is charisma and personality!! Its not really first impression but without those two it would be hard for me to even want to get to know you.

9. What is your eye colour? Blue/grey

10. Scary movie or happy endings? BOTH :) I love horrors and I love intellectuals films. Lately I started to watch independent movies. I am more book kind of the girl tho.

11. Favorite smells? DKNY red delicious 

12. Summer or winter? I don't mind. When summer finish I have enough hot days and want little bit of snow and opposite :) Prefer time in between, not to hot but not freezing either 

13. Computer or television? computer when I am alone, tv when its more of us. 

14. What’s the furthest you’ve ever been from home? pfff Russia I guess. I was just little so I remember little here and there. 

15. Do you have any special talents? annoying ppl?:D no just joking. Drawing I guess. I never think about that tbh. Maybe I am not that special after all ;)

16. Where were you born? Prague ( Czech Republic)

17. What are your hobbies? compulsively shopping, learning new things, reading, DIY, spending time with friends and family ( as I live far away from my home I enjoy every minute of that)

18. Do you have any pets? yeeee :) my beloved doggie 

19. Favorite movie? wow thats hard, its changing by my age, but most favourite what I love past 7 years is amelie from montmartre. I adore it, so sweet and funny. 

20. Do you have any siblings? Yes… two sisters and one bro :) love them to bits, but time to time we want to kill each other :) 

21. What do you want to be when you grow up? Unicorn would be my first option ;) I wanna be happy. Thats main thing what I aiming for :)

Not sure how much you know me after that :)

                                                              Xxx Kat xxX

Small minded ppl

I am not sure if I am only one who has this problem but...! Recently I had conversation with someone who was very opinionated about everything! That it's just one way of how to do things, one way of thinking and anything outside this box it's simply wrong. 

It's drive me nuts! End of the day everyone is different and everybody have right to have opinion and have voice to say what is this and that. It's not correct to have just one way how to see world! 

My mum always told me, do not try to argue with someone who think that world is black and white! 

And I always do ;) 

Ppl have different needs and dreams, if you wanna have farm and 4 donkies and chicken, then fair play as long as you are happy!

So benefits of the doubt it's important! 

And becouse that person doesn't like this or prefer something else doesn't mean it's bad! It's fresh air, I always loved to meet original ppl who has passion for something, and doesn't matter what is it. I am not perfect, make mistakes and learn all the time! And no one should put anyone down cos of some rules what should be follow! 

Thumbs up to anybody who has dignity and no needs to be cruel and mean!

Hope all of you are good 

     Loads of love 

                 Xxx Kat xxX

Banksy, Coffee and decisions.. I need a advice

I had busy few weeks..job hunting, still working, dealing with family and my obsession with shopping is becoming way too much for 24 hours. But I did enjoy most of it. I finally getting in stages when I will decide what job I will take. And I have problem to choose. One is perfect-I love every aspect of it. Its like been paid for your hobby BUT paying is not that great and long hours. Or take good pay job with easy little boring job. 

Plus I start thinking I am seriously addicted to coffee. Found myself in little coffee shop and was happy to buy 16 different kinds of coffee. Not that happy when I was paying them off but they are worst it :)

I could easily stay in that arty coffee place. Its kind of the place where you will loose track of time, have a good book or chat with your friends. Service is nice and smooth and no screaming kids around ( no offence to them ) 

I visit little place where they selling art stuff, and I fall in love with one Canvas. Of course I had to have it. 

Well next week I have to do some more shopping (as my place is still in renovating progress) so how I know myself I will visit that arty place again. I will try not to forget pics.

I will have to loose those hearts and that middle pic, but I am pleased with those pics.

Loads of love 

Xxx Kat xxX

5 things I love

I wanted to do tag ,, 5 things I hate,, but this one seems more like me. I am easy going, childish, stubborn and I constantly make idiot out of myself :) that's reason why.

1) COFFEE 

I cannot imagine my day without it. It's first thing in the morning. My bf learn very quickly that I need my cup before I start function. I have different style, taste for different occasion- and take it my coffee love very seriously ;)

2) EARLY MORNINGS

If I have day off and I am not lazy I love to go to beach around 7 am and just buy coffee to go and sit there and chill. Clean my mind and decide stuff what's bother me :)

3) MY HOME 

trying to make it nice.!living with 3 boys makes it harder :) love every month buy little bit and make it more and more to my liking :-)

5) MY LIFE 

I am happy, not all the time but most of the time. I don't care what ppl thinks about me, as long my friends and family are happy. I don't need make up all the time, i am sofa girl time to time